When it comes to dating, male strippers have it tough. Since male strippers are exposed to hundreds of women every weekend, many women do not want to date them. There are dancers who are faithful, and then there are dancers who are downright pets, just as there are in life. So, how does one go about finding a trustworthy male stripper to date? So, here are a few hints.
Do you know if he comes home at night?
Check to see what time he gets home at night if you just exchanged numbers with a male stripper and you two start dating. You don’t have to follow him around all the time; just contact him to find out where he is. If he’s still out drinking, that’s a red flag. He’s most likely hanging out with the girls he met at the male strip club and considering other options. It’s a positive sign if he responds to your text and you know he normally comes home after work. The activities that male strippers engage in after work reveal a lot about their commitment to relationships. The temptation to share numbers with another girl is always there, but if he is trustworthy, he will be open and frank about his whereabouts. Some of them might be working long hours and earning a lot of money. It all comes down to what your instincts are telling you.
Do you get a response from him when you send him a message?
If he doesn’t even respond to your messages, don’t bother. He most likely exchanged numbers with you and then forgot who you were or has other choices. Take it personally and carry on. If a dancer is interested in you, he will take the time to respond to all of your messages. Otherwise, if he’s a playboy, he’ll most likely ignore you and respond to your messages whenever he likes. Girls like the latter because it provides them with a challenge. Nobody wants something that is too easy to obtain. Prepare yourself for an emotional roller coaster, and don’t whine if he’s not as into you as you’d like. When you date a male stripper, it is never easy.
What does he want to do in his spare time?
Male strippers usually work Friday and Saturday nights, with Sunday and Thursday off. During the week, some of them work as personal trainers or models, but they typically have more free time during the week than on weekends. As a result, finding out what they do in their spare time is relatively easy. If he gives you ambiguous responses, it’s possible that he’s seeing other people. You will exhale a sigh of relief if he is very clear about his whereabouts. Please bear in mind, however, that some of the biggest players are really good at covering their tracks. They make excuses for anything, and they might even have old screenshots and images to conceal their location. Trust your instincts when it comes to dating because if you suspect he’s cheating, he most likely is.
Is it true that all male strippers are dogs?
No, that is not the case. There are dancers who have been in committed relationships for the entirety of their careers, and then there are those who would sleep with anybody over the age of 18 who has a pulse. Male strippers are, at the end of the day, just people, and there are three styles of guys. There are the players, the relationship guys, and everything in between.
The long-term partner
Male strippers who are looking for a long-term partner are still on the lookout. They aren’t interested in one-night stands or casual hookups. Either they settle down and marry the woman they’re dating, or they’re still single.
Male strippers have a poor reputation and are referred to as “players.” The reality is that some of them do so because they meet new people every weekend and are expected to be desirable enough to attract them. It’s not unusual to run into a male exotic dancer who swaps numbers with different women every weekend. However, talking to them would typically give the woman a hint of whether he is a player or not.
Finally, there are male exotic dancers who are not extremes nor are open to serious relationships and will sleep with anyone who wants to sleep with them. These are the men who want to keep their choices open while making women nuts. They claim to want long-term relationships but never follow through. They understand that there is always the chance to find someone better, so they keep their options open. It’s neither right nor wrong, but it typically boils down to how this person expresses their intentions in a relationship with their partner. If you think you’re dating one of these people, sit down with him and have an open and frank conversation about your desires and where he stands. Step on if he isn’t on the same page as you.
Dating is difficult enough, but dating a male stripper is even more difficult. It’s not impossible, since many of them are searching for that special person. They are, however, exposed to more females on weekends than the average male, and as a result, are more susceptible to temptation. Determine if you are emotionally available to date a male stripper, and be prepared for an emotional roller coaster.